Saturday 31 March 2012

Ecualove

Due to the gracious contributions of my fabulous and incredibly supportive family, On March 3, 2012, at 2 a.m. I left with Villanova with thirteen other students to embark on what would turn out to be a twenty-two hour journey to Duran, Ecuador.  Though this trip was qualified as a “service break experience”, my group and I would not be doing anything concrete while living in Ecuador. We would not be building a house, constructing a clean water filtration system, or demolishing a devastated house. We were sent to Ecuador to “be” rather than to “do.” We were told that we would be spending the week living in Arbolito, one of the poorest communities in Duran, which is an economically destitute community just outside of the city of Guayaquil, Ecuador. We would be living in the same manner that our neighbors do on a day-to-day basis, and were told to bring no technology (including cameras), jewelry, or snacks.  We were also told that it was wet season, which means it rains every day, all the time. I was so, so incredibly excited to be challenged by this trip. I know that I learn the most from being as far outside of my comfort zone as possible, and I felt that I could really learn a lot from Ecuadorians by living right alongside them.

When we arrived, we were driven into a gated compound in the middle of one of the poorest neighborhoods I have ever seen. While my neighbors lived in houses made out of sugar cane, scraps of wood, and tin, I lived in a house with solid walls, tiled floors, and mosquito nets over the bed to block out the swarms of mosquitoes that gathered near the swamp and river that ran along side of the house. Poverty and violence often go hand in hand, so it was understandable that there was such a high gate around the house, a security guard, and a guard dog named Wooky, but even within the community it sometimes felt like we were living in a little island amidst a sea of poverty. We lived with 4 year long volunteers with a Catholic organization called Rostro de Cristo, or face of Christ, whose mission is to unite Americans and Ecuadorians in order to find long-term solutions to the challenges of poverty. My favorite part of the mission statement is the goal to “inspire life-long commitments to service, social justice and solidarity in the global community.”


Me and Josue

So far, I have only described the conditions that I saw in Ecuador as destitute and wrought with poverty. It is very true that the community that I lived in has both infrastructural and social problems that need to be addressed, but the community of people that we met were incredible. Not only did they welcome us into their homes with generosity, sharing their food, stories, and families, but those that we met had a lot in common with us. One of our closest friends in the community was a college student, Aide, who had been an incredible student and was now getting a degree in sociology from a local university. Though it is their summer now, she was taking night classes at her university to get ahead, and also worked with Rostro de Cristo at their after school programs and helped with hosting student groups such as ourselves.  Another woman, Lupe, had just ended her marriage with an abusive husband, and was now being manipulated by her children for more money. At one point, she was in tears telling us her story, but it was important to her that we hear it. 

  Even though I met many of people from Ecuador who greatly moved me, the most inspirational person that I met was Pat, a former nun who left her order because they didn’t agree with the work that she wanted to do in Ecuador. She founded a high-end school for the upper class citizens of Guayaquil, stocked with SMART boards, air conditioned classrooms, and the finest teachers money could buy and called it Nuevo Mundo.  It charges a high tuition and requires an average of a 16.5/20 on all exams in order to remain enrolled (grades are given on a scale of 20 in Ecuador instead of 100). Due to lack of infrastructure for school buildings, it is also common in Ecuador to have two sessions of school per day, splitting up the students into the morning group and the afternoon group in order to decrease class sizes. Nuevo Mundo has a morning class of wealthy children, and afterwards, a select group of students who have the scores to qualify are brought in for the afternoon session. The children in the afternoon session get to benefit from all the resources that the children in the morning session receive, at a mere fraction of the price. 



The afternoon school, or the Fundacion, stops at the high school level, mostly because there are very few students who maintain the academic standards that Pat requires of the Nuevo Mundo students. However, those who receive an A average are invited to join the morning students for high school. Each year, there are 10 spots reserved for these high school students, but unfortunately all ten spots are never filled. Next year, 5 new students from the afternoon school will be joining the morning school for their high school experience with the some of the wealthiest members of the Guayaquil community. We had the chance to meet with these 5 students, and talk with them (in English) about their studies, hobbies, and university life in America. They were so excited, engaging, and educated about their county. One boy was particularly impressive: not only did he have the goal of becoming the president of Ecuador, but he also had a concrete, step by step plan of how he was going to accomplish this. 




After explaining all the logistical details of the school to us, Pat presented us with a challenge. She asked us, “How are you going to get your way into heaven?” She continued, “I know I already have a spot up there, and no one ever told me that I need to secure it. You don’t have that excuse. Now someone has told you that you need to go out and make an impact on the world. You just need to figure out how you’re going to do it.” At that moment, I could feel something twinge in my heart. I’ve known that I want to work in international development since I was 15, but I still haven’t figured out in what capacity. Pat’s talk about her school, how she had moved down to Ecuador, separating herself from her family and all the creature comforts of living in the country she was born in, and how she had given her entire life for the students in the Fundacion really inspired me.  It made me want to make an impact now, which was frustrating because I have 2 and a half semesters of school before I can commit to something concrete. But then I realized I could make a real impact simply by incorporating what I learned on my trip into my life. By living simply, I live in solidarity with the people that I felt so connected with while in Ecuador. By being generous, I show others the kindness I saw in my neighbors in Ecuador. By telling others about Pat, Aide, Lupe, and my favorite young boys at the after school program (Manos Abiertas)I make the situations that they are facing seem much more real to my family and friends at home. 


We fried plantains every single night with the help of our neighbors. I can't find plantains anywhere in Philadelphia to replicate them... let me know if you know a place...

Wednesday 28 March 2012

Paris Top Ten



    One of my favorite stops on my whirlwind trip to Europe was the week I met up with Russell in Paris. I had a LONG to do list for Paris, and he was great for putting up with my extensive list of my priorities. We tried to do a mix of just wandering around getting completely lost in the city and the touristy/standing on the corner with an upside-down map/couple-y things that you can't miss when you go to Paris. At this point, my camera had gotten stolen, so we shared Russell's iPhone as a camera. There were so many moments that felt so surreal. We had been talking about this trip for about 6 months, and felt so, so, so incredibly lucky to have had the opportunity to do this.
    Here's my Paris top ten (in no particular order):
    1. The most decadent chocolate desert, salted caramel macaroon, and tea at Laduree:
    I cannot express to you how delicious that desert was. Chocolate heaven on earth.
    2. Tuileries:


    3. Having a picnic of brie and a baguette in the park in front of the Eiffel Tower. It was the last thing we did before we left, and we walked around for 20 minutes trying to find a bakery with a baguette, and it was so delicious and worth it:
    4.  Escargot at a Michelin Star restaurant on Ile de St. Louis, my favorite place in Paris: 
    5. Wandering around the catacombs deep, deep underneath the city. I got seriously claustrophobic toward the end and dragged Russell out of there. Picture walking for over an hour among the bones of 6 million people, 1.5 kilometers below ground, in the dark...Cool, but only for so long...

    6. The Louvre at night. The Louvre is open until 10 pm on Wednesday and Friday nights, so we went and spent hours getting completely lost in the biggest art museum in the world. It was much less crowded at night, sometimes we were the only people in the gallery. How DaVinci code is this picture Russell took of the full moon and the Louvre pyramid?

    7.  Getting lost at night. We spent pretty much every night just wandering around, keeping our eye on the Eiffel tower to see the lights going off every half an hour. This is a fantastic picture that was taken of me in the middle of one of these walks. Walking around with no where to go and nothing to worry about was one of the coolest way to get to know the city. 
    8. You know those meals that you'll never forget, whether its because of the food, the atmosphere, or the people you're with? This was one of them. We went to Au Pied de Cochon late one night after our Louvre trip for dinner. This was one of Julia Child's favorite restaurants, and they are famous for their french onion soup. I don't think I can ever have french onion soup again after this one because it was so flawless. I'm drooling just looking at that picture. The atmosphere of the restaurant as well as the fact that it was so late at night gave the entire meal this surreal feeling. We were surrounded by wealthy old French people, and it was a fabulous place to people watch. 

    This was technically Russell's birthday dinner because I couldn't
    see him on the actual day, so we decided to splurge on creme brulee for desert:


    No words.


    We were clearly just broke American college students (ordering the cheapest thing on the menu) who couldn't speak French, but our waiter was so welcoming and friendly. This may have been my favorite night in Paris.

    9. Sacre Coeur Basilica



    10. Versailles. The palace was beautiful, but wandering around the extensive grounds was the most fun. There is a maze of bushes, fountains, and a man-make lake as Versailles backyard. It was a gloomy, cold and overcast day, but that somehow only made walking around even more perfect: 





    We were incredibly lucky to be under 26 and EU residents at the time (Russell had his Spain visa, and I pretended that Villanova University was in Spain), because every museum we went to (except the Catacombs) was free for us. So if you're under 26 and studying abroad in Europe or have a Spanish/French/German/etc sounding university name GO to Paris and get one of the best deals Europe has to offer.

    So sorry that this is so late and not very detailed, but I'm trying to productively procrastinate, and I figured it was about time. I left out mass at Notre Dame, Musee d'Orsay (my favorite, but I don't have any pictures), Napoleon's tomb, Shakespeare and Co, Montmarte, Moulin Rouge, the top of the Eiffel tower at night etc, but you all get the picture.

     I wouldn't change a single moment about the week (even my extended missions to find the perfect French restaurant).  I am such an incredibly lucky girl to have spent a flawless week wandering around the city with the perfect travel partner, who was down for whatever.

    Au revior until later my friends!



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